He likes to refer to everything in terms of “I”. I need this, I need that. He went to someones house doing his job with our personal car and the owners dog scratched our car door. He went through the mans insurance company and got the damage paid for, I asked him about the insurance money and he told me “I needed to live so I spent it”.. he received over $500 from the insurance company. Little things like that don’t add up in the long run. We just had our taxes done and he’s already hounding me about the money coming in. I had the accountant put all the funds directly into my checking account. This way I know where the money will be going and what it will be spent on..